Showing posts with label Visualisation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Visualisation. Show all posts

Tuesday, 9 January 2018

Life! By Design - Create Passion and Purpose in Your Life

"Life! By Design: Create Passion And Purpose In Your Life" by Tom Ferry with Laura Morton is one of the newer books on living with passion, purpose, and as Ferry puts it, by design and not default. In it, Ferry teaches his six steps to an extraordinary you. If you have read other books on living life to its fullest and achieving your dreams and goals, you might find much of this book similar. After all, basics are basics, each person just has a different way of teaching them. It's sort of like the martial arts. There are numerous styles, all teaching variations of hitting, kicking, blocking, and so forth. But different people will connect with different styles and instructors better than with others. I'm sure many people will connect with Ferry's six steps and other advice in this book. And for those that have heard a similar message before, it does not hurt to hear again. I'm sure those that follow Ferry's system will achieve more and live more by design than by default. That is, if they apply his system and follow through.


Ferry's book is a motivating read that is divided into two parts. There's an introduction and an introductory chapter, then you get into the main two parts of the text. Five chapters make up part one, Living By Default. The final four chapters make up part two, Living By Design. After an introduction that explains a little of who Ferry is and where he came from, he continues in Chapter One discussing how he created his own future and asks if the reader is ready to do the same.


Phase 1: Living By Default contains chapters on by default versus by design, waking up, the problem with no problems, addictions, and turning to face the changes. These chapters get you thinking about where you are today and what kind of life you are living. If you take the time to really think about your own situations and ask yourself the difficult questions Ferry asks you to ask yourself, you will be rewarded by the discovery. He ends phase 1 by asking if you will choose to live by design or default.


Phase 2: Living By Design contains chapters on the six steps to living by design, the conscious and subconscious mind and the power of self-talk, the benefits of a healthy body and healthy mind, and the five evolutions to master by design living.


The six steps are found in chapter seven and consist of:


1. Wake up from you coma - become aware of the areas in you life that need attention.
2. Make the choice to change your life.
3. Create your life By Design.
4. Do the things that bring you power!
5. Practice visualizing yourself already there, in possession of what you want.
6. Create structure and accountability by telling others around you about your plans.


The six steps are explained well and Ferry provides examples and exercises to help you along the way. Again, I think the system has merit for those that actually implement his ideas.


The next chapter is on positive affirmations. Why? Because they work says Ferry. Chapter nine contains a few basic principles of health. Nothing in depth here, but I agree with Ferry 100% that taking care of your physical well-being is critical to achieve success in other areas too. Where there is much more to living healthy that Ferry provides, his basics are sound and would help anyone not already following a healthy lifestyle. The final short chapter is on mastery with a motivating message to go be extraordinary.


I enjoyed the book. Even though many of the concepts were very familiar to me, and things I do already, I thought Ferry did a good job of motivating and providing exercises for readers to take command of their own lives and as he says, many times, life by design, not default. If you are looking for a book to pep you up and help you live with more passion, check this one out.


Friday, 29 December 2017

How to Make Your Goals for the New Year Stick

Any time is a good time to begin setting goals, however the New Year always feels like a fresh start for making lasting change. We all start out with good intentions, really wanting to achieve our goals but somehow we kind of lose the momentum shortly after committing to them. What is it that stops us in our tracks? If you desire to have a healthier life style, or create a business plan that will generate more revenue, travel, buy a home, or what ever goals that turn you on, you first have to become clear as to what you really want.

Clarity is the first step to manifesting any outcome. The clearer you can define exactly what you want the more it becomes programmed into your subconscious mind, Then your subconscious mind will begin to go to work looking for ways to achieve it.

Next you have to visualize the outcome. Actually engage all your senses to feel like what you want is already present. This is putting your imagination to work. Play with this and see yourself already accomplished in your goal.

After you see yourself fully engaged in your vision, focus is the next step. This is so important and where you can derail from your vision if you become distracted. We live in a day and age where we are being bombarded with so much information that we can easily lose sight of our vision if we do not stay on course and keep our eye on the goal. We must hold our vision and focus on it every day. The longer you can hold the image, the better.

Then, you must believe that it is possible for you to obtain your desired goal. Without believing in yourself, nothing can manifest. Putting the previous tools in place will keep you from losing momentum.

Next, take some action. This is the glue that will begin to cement your belief in your goal and draw it closer to you. What ever your seeking is seeking you too. You see, there is no attraction without the action. Action is a vital ingredient in the recipe for successful goals. As you move in the direction of your goal, the mere action of doing something creates a powerful force in your favor.

The universe conspires to assist you and you will begin to get a sense of synchronicity working with you. This is your intuition kicking into high gear. This is also another mental muscle like imagination that is helping guide you in the direction of your desired outcome. It can be a subtle nudge to do something, or a feeling that overcomes you, letting you know how to navigate the course ahead.

This is how to make your goals stick. It is a process, and it takes time to implement them. However the more you apply these steps to your desired goal, the faster they will create results in your favor. Any thing that you truly desire will manifest into physical form if you are vigilant with simply following this course of action. This is the creative process. So this year, why not begin with a clear vision, belief, focus, action, and intuition to make 2016 your best year yet. It works, if you work it!


Monday, 20 November 2017

Law of Attraction Truths

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION MYSTERY


I am pretty confident you have heard of the law of attraction. And again, I know that you have been told that it is just the matter of thinking about what you want. You simply have to think about it and somehow it will land on your lap. Somehow..

This law of attraction thing is supposed to be easy, right? Well, if you believe all the talk going around about this topic, why are you not connecting the dots? Why are you not successful?

And why does it seem so HARD? Why do other people seem to make it look easy? Why? Why?

WHY IT DOES NOT WORK


A lot of so called law of attraction practitioners put excessive emphasis on the tools. An example would be that of a teacher who simply shows her students answers to solutions without showing them how they are calculated.

Secondly, these "practitioners" seem to gloss over a powerful concept i.e. BELIEFS.You see, our beliefs about ourselves, surroundings, abilities, possibilities etc determine where we end up in our lives.

A lot of people tend to think that the answer is somewhere in the distance. This leads to an addiction to self help materials. One ends up collecting and reading hundreds of self help books but still not benefiting anything whatsoever.

The above are some of the reasons why law of attraction does not seem to work for you.


MY STORY IN A NUTSHELL


For the longest of times, I was obsessed about self help books, especially the law of attraction narrative. The idea that one can just think in a certain way thereby changing one's life, for the better absolutely intrigued me. I was hooked.

I read and read any law of attraction book I can lay my hands on. I attended seminars, bought videos and countless books. But there was no improvement in my life. In fact, I was poorer for it because I was buying so much self help materials, to no avail.

I kept on asking myself "Why? What was I doing wrong?" Surely there was nothing wrong with what I was reading. Many people were using the same and succeeding. The answer was right under my nose.


THE SOLUTION


It turns out what we need to do in order to make the most of the law of attraction rule is to look within ourselves. We have to inspect our beliefs about ourselves. We have to realize that we do not have to read hundreds of books in order to get our lives in order.

As a matter of fact, we do not need anything outside ourselves. We are really not lacking in resources.


THE STEPS


Get to grips with what you want in your life. Do you want more money? Are you after a perfect relationship? Do you need a more harmonious life? You get the picture..

Realize that what prevents you from actually achieving your desires is yourself. Nothing or no one else.

Get to work. Working, in this instance, could mean a lot of things. But the idea is that what you are after will have to be received. So, working is the act of receiving what is coming to you.

Start experiencing the things you want. For instance, if you want a specific car, start driving it in your mind. Visualize its every detail i.e. colour, dashboard, tyres, seats etc. See every detail and yourself already driving it. Do this long enough and with absolute conviction and before you know it, you will receive it.

Expect to receive what you want. Do not even think about the possibility of failure. You cannot fail. Period

The law of attraction does work. All you need to realize is that it is one of the vehicles at your disposal to success. Use it and see miracles in our life.